fluffyrat Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 How soon is too soon to go from "friends," to "more than friends?" Let's see, it's like this. There's this guy that I've been socializing with a little bit for a few months now, but I've only seen him once a week. So, the last few weeks, maybe four or five, we've really been talking and goofing around a lot more. Finally last night we finally actually WENT somewhere, besides just goofing on each other at the bowling alley for like two hours or less once a week. We went to Cue Masters to shoot pool, then we went to IHOP, because nothing else was open. Anyway, I REALLY like him, but I don't want to jump into anything too soon, because I don't want to mess anything up. *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Joker Posted August 13, 2005 Report Share Posted August 13, 2005 I don't know.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONES Posted August 14, 2005 Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 (edited) it all depends on how you feel I can only speak for myself It took me 3 months to totally feel comfortable with my b/f because I like to take things slow and I wanted to really get to know him and we became good friends and we have been dating for a year now and we are growing closer and closer each passing day. Edited August 14, 2005 by dream19 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluffyrat Posted August 14, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2005 it all depends on how you feel I can only speak for myself It took me 3 months to totally feel comfortable with my b/f because I like to take things slow and I wanted to really get to know him and we became good friends and we have been dating for a year now and we are growing closer and closer each passing day.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Uh huh, well...We're going out again tonight, but I just talked to him on the phone for like two and a half hours. It's CRAZY! lol And it wasn't just meaningless rambling, we were actually talking about real stuff, but what I can't understand is why, when I can't have a three word conversation with someone I haven't known for five years, I can talk to him for almost three hours. It's very odd. Perhaps that's a sign that it's right. I don't know. I WANT to take things slowly, because I don't want to be hurt again, but the other part of me is just crazy and like, do it NOW! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugargirl Posted August 16, 2005 Report Share Posted August 16, 2005 ...no comment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BONES Posted August 17, 2005 Report Share Posted August 17, 2005 Uh huh, well...We're going out again tonight, but I just talked to him on the phone for like two and a half hours. It's CRAZY! lol And it wasn't just meaningless rambling, we were actually talking about real stuff, but what I can't understand is why, when I can't have a three word conversation with someone I haven't known for five years, I can talk to him for almost three hours. It's very odd. Perhaps that's a sign that it's right. I don't know. I WANT to take things slowly, because I don't want to be hurt again, but the other part of me is just crazy and like, do it NOW! lol<{POST_SNAPBACK}> I can understand what your saying getting hurt stinks. It sounds like you all are are getting along fine and things are moving in the right direction. Take things slow good idea and when the timing is right move it up to the next level. I took it so slow with my b/f that I ended up making the first move because he was not sure and he did not want to rush me into anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulDisaster Posted August 17, 2005 Report Share Posted August 17, 2005 Hm..Im not sure. Well you should ask him like where this is going, and you never ever know. He probably feels the same way. I mean theres no hurt in trying! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluffyrat Posted August 18, 2005 Author Report Share Posted August 18, 2005 Let's just close this subject. No sense to continue here. I got my answer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulDisaster Posted August 18, 2005 Report Share Posted August 18, 2005 awwwww.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfie Posted August 19, 2005 Report Share Posted August 19, 2005 we are growing closer and closer each passing day.<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Throw some of your crap out, with the extra space you gain, you'll be have some room to breathe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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