The Joker Posted May 30, 2005 Report Share Posted May 30, 2005 Um, this is something I really want to say to most... When I was 4 years old on January 1st 1996, my mother died of Kidney cancer. There was no treatment back then so she couldn't be saved.. Until today or forever I am griefed forever.. It's just that, when some people express someting about a mother or and insult about one.. it makes me sad to know I can't have one. I never actually knew my mother but I remember only my third birthday... She was using her camcorder to tape it.. *smiles at thought* I..wish I could have my mother with me here still...*cries* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Joker Posted May 31, 2005 Author Report Share Posted May 31, 2005 If anyone wants to express their sympathy please express it if you need to.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfie Posted May 31, 2005 Report Share Posted May 31, 2005 When I was 4 years old on January 1st 1996, ...<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Was it on Jan 1st, 1996, or were you 4 years old? Both is not possible. Aside from that, you might check out SoBe's interest in the cancer research area. Debate about Lance Armstrong's "LiveStrong" wrist bands SoBeLiz's "Tour of Hope" topic SoBeLiz's profile Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugargirl Posted May 31, 2005 Report Share Posted May 31, 2005 I am SO sorry to hear that ! I know what it's like...but not completely. Two years ago, my dad was diagnosed with throat cancer. It was a struggle, but his cancer is now gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulDisaster Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 Oh wolfie..who cares about the effing date. Thats DEFINALTLY not the point. Im really sorry to hear that hun. Its hard to deal with. My grandma JUST got diagnosed with cancer in April. And I did a speech about how it has affected my life..and I cried. It was so hard. The last thing my speech said was "My grandma really wants me to tell everyone about her illness, and how it affects HER and me. Please dont take life for granted, that it was she has always taught me..Thank you." And that is where I broke down..so if you ever do a speech like that and cry..its ok. People fully understand..trust me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfie Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 There is a point to it. How can you remember or recognize someone properly if you don't know the right information? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulDisaster Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 I know its hard..but You have to hold on..Its hard not having a mother now that I really dont understand..but she is with you right now. And she is watching over you right now. I promise. You will be with her someday, and when you are..It will be the most awesomest thing ever. But for now, you are MEANT to be here. You mom is in a better place now..and has been for a long time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulDisaster Posted June 1, 2005 Report Share Posted June 1, 2005 Oh for the love of my... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Joker Posted June 2, 2005 Author Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Well I meant to say 'When I was 4 years old, on January 1st 1996. My mother died of Kidney cancer.' Jeez Wolfie do you need to make me feel worse?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfie Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Angie, you could not be 4 on Jan 1st, 1996. Timeline for you to follow:Sep 29, 1992 - bornSep 29, 1993 - 1st birthdaySep 29, 1994 - 2nd birthdaySep 29, 1995 - 3rd birthdayJan 1st, 1996 - Unfortunate passing of your momSep 29, 1996 - 4th birthday Only way you could be 4 is if she passed in 1997 and not 1996.If you're certain you were 4, then check to verify the year it happened. After all, wouldn't it be wrong to say she passed away on the wrong year or to not realize how old you really were? This is all meant with the uptmost respect for the passing of a loved one too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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