rockoncheese101 Posted December 13, 2004 Report Share Posted December 13, 2004 OK, well i rlly like my bf, hes great. Everything about him is PERFECT! The only problem is he's 14, and last weekend i went to this party, and he tried to kiss me.Since he's 14 of coarse things are gonna go faster for him than me of coarse.But i froze... and right before he kissed me i started to cough and said i had a cold. But i can't help to feel that next time i see him. This isnt going to be aviodable. What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KimmiKitti Posted December 13, 2004 Report Share Posted December 13, 2004 (edited) The Answer is simple sponge head, If you are not ready for him, tell him simply no not yet, can we still be friends? Maybe when im ready we can get into it but now im just not ready. If you arent comfurtable dont do it. But boyscan be irritating if he says YOU HATE ME and doesnt understand, he isnt a good B/f is he? P.S. i have no clue why i called you sponge head..... Edited December 13, 2004 by KimmiKitti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfie Posted December 13, 2004 Report Share Posted December 13, 2004 It depends on how long you've known him. If you have been going out for a short period of time, then tell him that you feel uneasy with kissing just yet and that it's not him, but that if he gives you time, then he will get to kiss you. Don't try to put him onto a guilt trip and don't try to make it seem like you feel like crap for it otherwise that might make him think it's just an act. If he only wants to be able to kiss and nothing more, then you might try getting up the nerve and letting him kiss you, but somewhere that you feel safe and that he can't try to do anything you don't agree to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluffyrat Posted December 14, 2004 Report Share Posted December 14, 2004 You should post about this in the Dating Scene forum! It's new. ;-) Anyway...I'm having a problem along the same line (but a lil different). So, just tell him your feelings on the subject and if he can't respect that then get rid of him. You don't need someone pressuring you into things you're not ready for. BTW...way to go not letting him kiss you with you not being ready. Smart girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockoncheese101 Posted December 27, 2004 Author Report Share Posted December 27, 2004 tyvm .Btw, broke up..then got back together Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluffyrat Posted January 19, 2005 Report Share Posted January 19, 2005 So, if he's perfect then why is his kissing you a problem? Is he not perfect? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockoncheese101 Posted January 20, 2005 Author Report Share Posted January 20, 2005 Uhm, this topic should be locked up for anymore replies, and gone. I dont like him anymore. Actually.. i hate him. Sooo i doesnt matter, okay? Okay. Case closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluffyrat Posted January 20, 2005 Report Share Posted January 20, 2005 Okay...Topic is now closed. Happy now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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